Khutulun: The Wrestler Princess


Years before women’s wrestling was even a thing, Khutulun was dressing in the traditional male wrestling outfits and challenging men to fights. In Mongolian wrestling, two opponents grab onto one another’s arms, and they have to use their body strength to knock the other one over. She was apparently very tall, and she trained her muscles to be strong enough to go face-to-face with these men, even though the Mongol warriors are supposed to be some of the strongest in the world.

When she reached her late teenage years, her father began to talk about setting her up with a future husband. Khutulun hated this idea. At the time, women never got a choice in who they married, especially if they were a princess. Marriages were seen as diplomatic arrangements, and husbands were chosen by their fathers. Men, on the other hand, were allowed to have as many wives as they wanted, and they always had a say in the matter. They were also allowed to have a harem of concubines. There was very little room for love or respect.

Khutulun was strong and outspoken, saying that she would not allow her father to dictate who to marry. Her brothers got to choose who they should marry, after all, and she was stronger than most men. She declared that she had proven that she was worthy to choose her own husband. Surprisingly, Kaidu agreed with his daughter.

Khutulun suggested that if there was any man in the world who could defeat her in a wrestling match, she would marry them. Kaidu decided to turn this into a competition. He wrote a royal decree that any man in the kingdom who wished to marry his daughter needed to bring 100 horses as their ticket to entry. If they lost, they got to keep the horses. If he won, they could marry Khutulun.

Fight after fight, Khutulun kept winning. Wealthy men were traveling from all over the empire to challenge her, and lost their fleets of 100 horses. Khutulun won over 10,000 beautiful steeds, and Kaidu was extremely proud that his daughter was able to bring their family so much wealth, status, and respect. He often said that he believed Khutulun deserved to become the next Khan more than any man in Mongolia.

In his book about the Mongolian empire, the famous Italian traveler and historian Marco Polo wrote about one of Khutulun’s biggest wrestling matches. A wealthy prince from a neighboring kingdom showed up with a huge caravan of servants, as well as some of the healthiest and beautiful horses they had ever seen. The prince was also in his early 20’s, and very good-looking, to boot. Jaws dropped as he rode through The House of Ögedei. Everyone was convinced that this would be the future husband of Khutulun, and when the fight was scheduled, word spread quickly that this may be “the one”.

On the day of the fight with the handsome prince, a massive crowd had gathered to watch, including Marco Polo and members of Kublai Khan’s royal court. Khutulun and the prince locked arms, and they struggled in the ring for much longer than any other man had ever lasted before. The crowd was screaming and cheering. But suddenly, Khutulun got the upper hand, and slammed the prince to the floor. The cheering stopped, and it was clear that everyone was disappointed. At that moment, everyone was convinced that Khutulun must want to be alone forever.

The Legacy of Khutulun

There is no written record of Khutulun ever getting married. Rumors were flying about the reasons why she remained single, just like they would with modern-day celebrities. Some people thought she was having an incestuious relationship with her father. (eew). But it’s far more likely that she was either a lesbian, or she knew that if she got married, she would have to give up her life as a warrior princess. After all, a heavily pregnant woman can’t exactly jump into battle at a moment’s notice. And how could she find time to raise small children if she was busy protecting her father’s kingdom?

Other rumors say that she was in love with one of her first cousins, and she could not marry him. They say that she simply had a broken heart, and decided that if she could not marry her cousin, she wouldn’t marry anyone at all. Over the years, Khutulun kept herself busy by riding by her father’s side and winning several battles. They even attempted to overthrow Kublai Khan together.

When Khutulun was in her early 40’s, her father was on his deathbed. Kaidu was surrounded by all of his children and wives. As he was dying, he said that he regretted never appointing Khutulun as the future leader before that day. He said that she was the strongest, and therefore the most worthy of having the leadership position. Not only that, but the soldiers genuinely respected her.

When he died, they didn’t know how to handle the situation. Unlike European cultures, the heir to a father’s throne was not given to the oldest son. It was given to the strongest. Since Khutulun was stronger than her brothers, it obviously made them jealous that they lose their inheritance to a girl. Her own brothers planned a plot to assassinate her, and she was killed before she had a chance to become the leader of the Mongols.

As the years went on, the story of Khutulun was told again and again all over Mongolia and China. The most popular story about her was the wrestling challenges in order to find a husband. Over hundreds of years, the story transformed into a modern-day opera called Turandot in the 1800’s. This was about a Chinese princess who refused to marry any many unless he could solve three complicated riddles. The true story of Khutulun is actually far more interesting, and her memory deserves to live on.



Have you ever thought of snuggling a farm animal to relieve stress? Well, if that has been your dream, there’s no need to fret anymore as “cow cuddling” is now a thing, and it will help you unwind!

There’s no denying the stress levels experienced by today’s generation is far more than what was experienced by the earlier generations.

Unhealthy lifestyle, hectic schedules, desire to achieve more in less time—the list is endless—are some of the reasons increasing our stress levels and gradually pushing us towards the condition of emotional exhaustion or fatigue.

To deal with such conditions, new trends have emerged in the wellness industry. And the latest one, ‘cow cuddling,’ will cost you a few bills, but it’s definitely worth it.

According to PubMed, spending time with animals lowers stress levels. The concept may be somewhat awkward for some people, but it’s a brand new therapy that reminds us of similar, popular trends in the past—goat and cat yoga.

It’s difficult to do cow yoga, so the best option is to cuddle with them. And it’s not just cows, but other animals as well. Spending time with them provides healing, mindfulness, relaxation and comfort, improving our confidence and assertiveness.

Mountain Horse Farm in New York has a program that offers this therapy called the ‘Horse & Cow Experience.’ Here, people are given a chance to spend some unwinding time with animals.

Their program lets you pet, play or brush the animals. But if you’re not in the mood to pet or play, you can cuddle with these farm animals.

A 90-minute session costs $300. If you like the cuddling part, you can get a 60-minute session for $75. You can also invite your friends.

Their website states:

“Cows have a body temperature that is slightly higher than humans, and their heart rate is lower than ours. Cuddling up with a cow, feeling that lower heart rate and higher body temperature, is very relaxing.”

Interacting with animals is one of the best ways to connect with nature and reduce stress. As reported by Mountain Horse Farms, cows and horses are sensitive and use body language to communicate.

The website explains:

“They will pick up on what’s going on inside and sense if you are happy, sad, feel lost, anxious or are excited. They will respond to that without judgment, ego or agenda.”

This new trend hasn’t been without criticism, though.

According to animal behavior experts, cows are escape animals that aren’t “designed” to cuddle with humans. But Mountain Horse Farm explains that their cows are loved and well treated, and they live a normal life in herds as if they were in the wild.